Editor’s Note: Freud vs. Adler Revisited
I’m not a psychologist and don’t claim any expertise, but human behavior has long fascinated me. In my former life running a car business—selling over 2,000 cars and interacting with more than 20,000 to 30,000 people—I saw patterns emerge. Now, as a Tennessee state representative, those insights drive my work to solve real problems. Ironically, problems were much easier to solve in the car business than in politics.
With age brings perspective, and today’s society worries me deeply: rising drugs, violence, divorces, and a mental health crisis—with teen girl suicide rates spiking alarmingly. I’m reminded of my grandkids, 3-year-old Grace and 16-month-old Henry Davis. What world awaits them? Will there be safe drives to Nashville in the future, despite murders along I-24 in LaVergne and Smyrna? Will our growing schools be safe? What will the mental health of my grandkids be?
This week, I met folks trapped in victimhood, blaming past trauma on everyone else—“society’s out to get me. So and so did this! So and so did that!. Even some of my colleagues refused to meet with them. Classic Freud: dwell in the past, play the victim. Adler flips the script—take responsibility, build courage. Freud pioneered work on hysteria; Adler built upon it. But in today’s chaos, Adler resonates: quick action over endless analysis. My late WWII Great Depression-era father would have told me, “Suck it up, buttercup, and get over it!” In fact, I agree with him. It’s time to move on.
The past few months and weeks Ive spoken to many therpist regarding mental health and sadly, teen suicide. There’s no doubt mental delays issues are on the rise. I just gave a heroism of mine a ride from Dr. Automotive and he was telling me a story about a young man committing suicide just last week.
What Are SMART Goals?
SMART goals—Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound—pair seamlessly with CBT for mental health. Swap “get less anxious” for “practice deep breathing 5 minutes daily before bed for two weeks.” Track progress, build momentum, fight procrastination. Small wins crush low motivation and depression.
Integrating CBT with SMART Goals
CBT therapists set SMART targets tied to goals, like boosting social ties against isolation or reframing work fears. Behavioral activation schedules rewards, blending discipline with positivity. Track results to fuel self-efficacy—vague dreams become reality.
Additional Mental Health Strategies
Blend mindfulness with CBT: observe thoughts neutrally to curb rumination. Exercise like weightlifting pumps endorphins—target “bench press 3 sets of 10 reps, 3 days weekly.” Journal distortions daily; forge faith or community bonds. Add gratitude logs, sleep routines (no screens pre-bed), 4-7-8 breathing, and grounding (5 things you see, 4 you touch, etc.). Ditch victimhood—embrace Adler’s courage for resilience. Start today; consistency transforms.
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Originally published in Archology











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